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I'm 14 and have been talking to this guy who's 15. He lives in America and I live in England. I'm so in love with him it's unreal. Recently, something's happened and I'm not allowed to talk to him anymore. Yesterday I had to tell him and it was the hardest thing ever. I miss him with all my heart... Life without him isn't worth living, I feel so lost. We have tons in common and he makes me feel better. I really want to talk to him, he's the only one I want. Please help xx
Well, why can’t you talk to him exactly? If you don’t mind me asking. It’s difficult for me to help you because i’m not really sure what you want me to help you with. Like how to talk to him or how to not miss him lol sorry. Send me another message with a little bit more details and i’ll do my best to help you :)
my bf and i had been dating for a year before he moved away 4 months ago. were both in grad school so we have very little time to talk, i text him all day long but he doesnt respond much. i miss him so much it hurts, i cry daily. were not that far so we see each other every couple weeks but this is almost worse because its so much up and down for my emotions. i wish we could skype more often but he just doesnt have time. what can i do to cry less? and how do i tell him to talk to me more?
Definitely talk to him about it and tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him that it really hurts/affects you to not be able to talk to him frequently. And yeah maybe initiate a skype session yourself? I think I said this to someone else before but, talk to him and ask him when he’s free. Even if it’s just to talk for an hour or two every night before bed or during one of your lunch breaks. Schedule the times that you both are available and try to make the most out of it. Set aside a time where you both just spend time with each other. I know you both are probably busy, but that doesn’t mean you can’t make time for each other, especially if you’re trying to make a ldr work. I would tell him that and also that you miss him. You both have to compromise girl, he can’t be busy all day every day lol.
Hey! Its me again =) well since my boyfriend is 5 years older he will start working soon, he is studying to be a scientist. Im really worried that we wont spend much time together since he will be working and i'll be in school. What do I do? I mean like how can I handle it? It will only be a year though, because as soon as i finish school I'll move in with him...but is hard to think we wont talk and he always will be busy =/ help me?
Omg this has been in my so I completely forgot to send this! Sorry this is so late! Well first, Id just like to say wow, because I have never met anyone who is studying to become a scientist! haha. I think that in order to make it easier on you, you should stay busy yourself! Focus on school and spend time with your family and friends and it won’t seem like you’re just waiting around you know? Because I definitely remember when my bf and I first started going out and all I wanted to do was wait until he came home which made it so hard for me. So keeping yourself busy definitely helps. Next, I would try and coincide your schedules. Figure out when you two will be able to talk to each other. Whether it’s at night before you guys go to bed or during one of his breaks. Know when the other person is available and schedule your time accordingly! I hope it works out xoxo
Have you ever cheated on your lover? It must be hard being away from him and like... I'm in a ldr & I had a moment of weakness. I was drunk, black out drunk, and I woke up in someone else's bed. I remember bits and pieces and I did have sex with him. I have no idea who he was and I feel so fxcking awful. I love my ldbf & we've been together for a year & I can't Stand that I actually did this to him. I told him and he still wants to keep me. We're on our 10th visit this month. I just want to die.
No, I can’t say i’ve ever cheated. Your boyfriend is very understanding to have wanted to still be in the relationship. (Does that sound mean? Lol I don’t mean for it to) Okay, so that happened. My view on it is that the past is the past and if your boyfriend is willing to move past your moment of weakness, then you should too. Have you guys really talked about it? Because if my SO did that to me, I would be a little less trusting, but that’s just because I have trust issues haha. How does he feel about what happened? Because once you see where he stands, then I think that’s when you both can fully move forward. Better yet, tell him in person and reassure him that it won’t happen again. You should also tell him how you feel as well! Good luck
are long distance realationships worth it? really? i absolutely love my amazing boyfriend who lives literally in my neighborhood and he's moving by the end of the school year and i'm really sad and if he wants to i want to long-distance but i want to know if it will cause me more stress/ sadness than happiness. help. i don't know what i'd do without him. he's been my only real relationship but i could honestly say i would spend the rest of my life with him we have been dating for five months.
I won’t say that it’s not worth it but it’s definitely difficult. Honestly, going into a ldr really tests how strong your relationship is with your significant other and it does take a lot of work but what relationship doesn’t! Have a talk with him and if you are both willing to work through it, I’d say go for it! It won’t be easy, but as time goes on and you both kind of figure out what works for you and your relationship, it WILL get easier :)
Hey! I am in a LDR and i love my guy so much. It was ol gud in beginin he made me feel loved bt as tym passed we didnt met even once after we started so fights n all n finally he broke up wid me. After 6months he asked fr another chance n i said yes. But now he is goin thru sm family prob im there fr him but we rarely talk nw idk wat to do i miss him so much n feel so alone and helpless. Hes not sharing anythin wid me idk whether he loves me or not.What shud i do? Hope u can help :)
Sorry this is so late! But i think you should continue to still be there for him and be supportive. Let him know that you’re there for him if he ever needs to talk about anything. Just wait until he’s ready to tell you whatever he needs to! Also, keep telling him how much you miss and love him because i’m sure that’ll definitely help to comfort him!
Hey! I'm in LOVE with your blog.. So I was like scrolling through and I saw your LDR bf is from Texas, so is my amazing boy :) I'm in Australia so we are so far away (8991.2 miles) but I love him to death and I am just saying its so amazing how much love you give him. It's adorable :) have a nice day. ohh and your gorgeous. love Coreigh x
Aww that’s so sweet! Thank you!! <3 you have a good day as well! Sending positive vibes to you and your man! xoxo
Hey, my name is Kassandra and I'm in a LDR too ❤ I met my boyfriend in the 3rd grade. He is my first and only boyfriend and we've been dating since the 4th grade. A year later he moved to North Carolina and left me down here in Florida. We were just babies and I thought we were for sure over, but the minute he landed he called my house and we spoke for hours. He's my first everything. We're now freshmen in college and he's moving back down to me. I just wish you and Jacob the best ❤ Make it last
Aww that’s so cute that you’ve been together since the fourth grade! :D
Thank you so much! That’s sweet of you! <3 and I wish you and your boyfriend the best as well!
I never knew you could love someone so much that is really far away. The guy I have fallen for lives in Netherlands, Holland and I live in Queensland, Australia. The time difference is difficult yes but he makes me so happy and it is the best feeling in the world, it instantly turns into magic when him and I talk. I wouldn't trade him for a guy closer to me. I love him dearly.
for me and my boyfriend! I can’t even believe it’s been this long! And only 4 more months until 4 years! Hopefully, he’ll be here by that time since training starts in the fall :) I know I haven’t been posting as much lately but there are so many good things coming this year and I can’t wait to share it with you all!
Jacob and you will be done in no time. You should know better about how mad Jay gets when it comes to other guys and I was the one that told him about you following all these guys and liking their pictures. It just looks more suspicious that you all of a sudden changed your IG back to private.
I usually don’t respond to hate but this will be one of the few exceptions, so I apologize to my followers in advance.
Putting my IG on private is my business because why would I want anonymous bitches like you to stalk me on instagram? I have a feeling that you’re the same person who stalked my personal tumblr a couple years ago? Lol are you that obsessed with my boyfriend and my life that you would deliberately go on my IG and blab to my man over something as miniscule as that? If Jacob had a problem with something then he would come straight to ME. I don’t have to justify my actions to you or anyone else because as far as I’m concerned, I’ve done nothing wrong and i know you spread a bunch of lies about me to him. We talked about everything and we’re better than ever now and to be honest, it’s extremely pathetic that you’d try to come between someone and their relationship. What do you have to gain from doing this? even if we werent together, which is never happening, you think he’d really go after someone like you? We’ve been together for 3 1/2 years, do you really think something as juvenile as this is really going to tear us apart? Jacob has access to any and every social networking account I have if he wanted it, I have absolutely nothing to hide from him. All I know is that what goes around comes around, so I’d think twice before you try to come into MY relationship and attempt to sabotage it by altering the truth.
Hey Stephanie:) You have an amazing blog and you and Jacob are really amazing too :) I was wondering if you could help me with something. I'm kinda in a long distance relationship (7000+ miles) & It's his birthday soon and i don't really know what to do for him. I wanna make him happy. I want to do something cute but I'm not really good at it. Can you help me with that,like giving me any ideas about it? Thank you so much:) Wish you all the bests with your boy,be happy and always smile:)
Thank you so much :)
Okay well, I’d say that you should send him a package of goodies! Maybe write him a letter and send him a little something that you think he would like. And I also try to get something that my guy has been wanting (especially on his bday), so if he’s mentioned something maybe try that? I don’ t think the gift has to necessarily be expensive but just try to make/get things that are thoughtful and reminiscent of your relationship :)
I was always a huge doubter of LDR mainly because I never really thought they could be made to last. Boy was I wrong. I fell for my girlfriend and lets just say she makes me a very very happy lady. She's American and I'm British, this is the hardest thing I've ever done, but most definitely the most rewarding.
I’m happy to see you changed your opinion about LDRs because it definitely is rewarding when you are able to make things work :) I wish you all the best!
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